Why I do what I do
About Steve your masseur. I have one, simple mission: to work with you in a way that pleases you.
What I do is often life-changing for you in some way; for men who are in need of escape from life’s pandemonium. To feel completely removed from the rush of modem times, and responsibility.
It’s a great way to spend some much-needed time in the company of a gentle, soft-centred, erotic masseur, who loves to pleasure you. I am, by nature, very warm-hearted, nurturing, patient, and, above all else, ultra-passionate when it comes to massage. I have been for as long as I can remember.
I’m Steve: a big, mature, reflective, strong gay man, with talented hands, and a huge heart. I was given my empathy, gentleness, patient and caring disposition for a purpose: to be a kind soul, who cares about, and loves, to help others. Especially you.
Who I like to massage
I particularly enjoy massaging men between 21- 50 years old, who are keen sports men, or dedicated to physical fitness. There’s some information about that on the Questions and Answers page. If you click on the question, “Are we a good fit?”, the information will be revealed.
If you’re over 50, you can still have massage. There are some things you need to check, before you decide to book with me, though. On the Questions and answers page there’s a heading, titled, “I’m over 50. Can I still have massage?” Please read the response before proceeding.
Sometimes, words cannot communicate our feelings adequately. Often, there are no words to describe the intense emotions we can feel. This is known as pre-verbal.
Touch is the first thing we seek. It enables us to express so much, without the complexity, or barriers, of language. I therefore think of massage as my first language. Simply because it’s easier to express myself by doing it. If you’re new to having gay massage, this page gives you some information that may be useful.
If you have any doubts about whether you’d enjoy having a sensual gay massage with me, maybe you would be keen to see some testimonials from some of my many clients. The Testimonials Page can be found by clicking here.
I’m available by appointment, from 10:00 am until 18:00, 6 days a week, including bank holidays. The exceptions are Christmas Day and Boxing Day. Depending on schedules, this can vary a little. I’m not able to offer short notice appointments. That’s because I may already be doing a massage, or already be booked. I also love to keep myself fit, so I can’t see you while I’m training at the gym, or out shopping for provisions and the like. I need as much notice as possible.
Appointments are only confirmed when I have received a 50% deposit. This can be done by bank transfer. If you need to be discreet, and for the transaction not to show, you can pay the deposit in advance by cash in an envelope. Please see the details about this on the ‘making appointments’ page.
Get a free gym ball, worth £30 on your 2nd massage session. Get in touch now to make an appointment.
Why I may suit you
You may have thought about being with a man like me for a very long time, but may have had a hard time finding me. Now, you finally have — and I’m here to be of service to you.
Massage is something I love from the very core of my soul. I enjoy sensuality, warmth, empathy, generosity, creativity, curiosity, humour, respectful and fun company. All the good things in life. I am a small, but very special part of every man I’ve ever massaged. They are now a part of me, too. It helps us become who we were born to be. Who we truly are.
Memorable, happy, free and with lifted burden, massage is my gift of pleasure, harmony, balance, peace and caring toward you . I’m a bringer of some peace and love to the world. I enjoy pleasure by feeling your pleasure, hearing your pleasure, watching your pleasure — your enjoyment of a unique time with me.
I’m a man whose dream is to indulge your senses, spoil you rotten, and treat you really well — to look after you, and give you the support you need. This combination of you and me is unmatched by you and somebody else, simply because they are not me. How you are with me, may not be like how you are with others. It’s completely unique. Because I believe in being generous and supportive of you.
To get to know me better, please read on
Ideal Men I Love to Massage
Above all, I love to massage men who identify as straight or bisexual, and are normally highly masculine. Black (my real favourites), Asian, Middle-Eastem, Hispanic, European; I find all very enjoyable — any lovely guys similar to the rather nice young man in the photographs and videos. I’m in my element of enjoyment when I massage you. However, remember that’s not cast in stone. All men have a unique quality, which can make them attractive.
They have a twinkle in the eye that grips me, handsome faces, and solid muscular physiques. I particularly love to massage bodybuilders, or and muscle men, as some know them. I play the piano often, and I guarantee I have some great finger techniques that will tickle your ivories like you’ve never known! I will play you like the beautiful musical instrument you are.
I especially like to massage men who are sports enthusiasts. Any kind of sport where you work hard at and enjoy what you do, keeping you in good physical condition works well for me. You’ll find more information about this on the Questions and Answers page, and clicking the title that reads “Are We A Good Fit.”
Hairy or Smooth?
Hair or lack of hair isn’t a problem. I massage you regardless. The most important thing is that you’re really clean 😉
Having a great body and physical attraction go a long way to making your massage really erotic. The more erotic your appearance, the more pleasure I’ll get, and the better your massage will be. You never know just how good it could be until you try it.
Tall or Short?
Your height isn’t important. One of the most amazingly sexy men I ever massaged was a jockey. What he lacked in height was more than made up for in personality, wit, charm and pure physical beauty. He was like a pocket Hercules, with a disposition like sunlight, lighting up the lives of everyone he knew. He was fantastic.
Does it matter about my sexual orientation?
If you happen to be married, gay, straight or bisexual, this is not a problem. I recognise all too often that, as men, we don’t get the time to indulge ourselves in pleasure with another man nearly as much as we would like to. We need to find ourselves, and where we can be ourselves, is, sadly, more rare than is healthy, especially given the pace of life we have now, which is way more hectic than I ever imagined it would be.
Social and work expectations
We were born to be human, but we’re having to behave like machines because of the incredible pressures we’re put under. I wonder, if you’re employed by someone else, and you call in sick, the very next question, I’ll bet, is “When will you be back to work?” Never mind you need the time to not be put under pressure- which, of course, we don’t. It’s unhealthy.
The problem is frequently amplified by society, considering our desires for enjoyment and indulgence immoral in some way. Far from being immoral, the massage I provide is actually extremely important, especially for a man’s self-expression, and ultimate health and well being, and release from pent up stress, which could otherwise make you very ill.
You can rest assured I am totally discreet at all times.
As well as loving massage, I also enjoy cooking, playing the piano, trying out new ideas and leaming new skills. I enjoy challenges and being adaptable.
My History and Life Experience
About Steve, your masseur. What you might like to know.
I was born in 1963 in Watford, living in Garston. I attended Meridan Junior School (now demolished) for my education.
When I was 10 years old, my family and me moved to the Westcountry. Unfortunately, because the piano didn’t fit in the removal van, it had to be left behind! I really missed it! Also, all my school friends I knew, I had to leave behind. Gradually, and with some difficulty, I met, and made some new ones. Initially, I found the accent quite hard to understand, at first. As I got used to the lingo, things became much easier. There were a large number of different local accents used in various areas.
School and social life
I was very much something of a loner. I didn’t make or have many friends, because I was, and still am, very introverted. I was quiet, anxious and very sensitive. This didn’t fit well with most of the cliques in school and they frequently branded me something of a weirdo. I also had a habit of talking to myself, which also seemed to upset them.
I was just being a normal child, in his own, fascinating little world of observations and learning. I think the problems from other kids was their own lack of understanding. Those few friends I did make were very supportive and genuine, and have remained lifelong friends, whereas many others have not.
The pace of life was very quiet. We first lived in a small village called Porthleven (pronounced locally as “Port Lebbum”). I attended the local school until I went on to Helston Comprehensive School.
I really felt uncomfortable, and absolutely hated school, though I did love English, Music and Woodwork. Technical drawing was challenging, but enjoyable, though only part of the curriculum and not something I could specialise in. I was told by the Technical drawing tutor “You’re not as daft as you look!”- which I think was a friendly way of saying I perhaps could have applied myself to it a bit better than I had done.
What I studied
I studied French, biology, physics, maths (l loathed it, though enjoyed applied geometry using compasses to draw weird and wonderful patterns). I also had, and loved, everything “Spirograph”: Spirofoil, Spiromatic, Spiro 2000, Spirotint, and, of course, Swing-o-Graph.
It was shortly after my 11th birthday that, to my delight, I was led to a piano in the sun lounge, which was quickly moved to a cooler, more temperate room, where it stayed in tune far better, and wasn’t in sunlight.
After a gap of 5 years, there was an option to take in-school piano tuition and I took grades 3, 4 and 5. Grade 6 was, for me, the last, principally, because I cant stand theory of any kind, least of all, music theory. I simply couldn’t understand much of it, and learning what I had learned, had made my head hurt quite severely.
I never played publicly, because I’m very shy, and I suffer from stage fright. I disliked practicing scales and arpeggios, broken chords, etc. This made my tutors very frustrated. “If only Stephen would discipline himself, he could be a concert virtuoso!” was in a somewhat adverse school report, about my teacher’s frustration with me. However, it was not to be. I simply loathed the discipline. Luckily, my parents weren’t the kind who made me do anything I didnt like.
I do have certain regrets now, though. To be able to perform a Chopin concerto with an orchestra would be a great achievement. But my fingers tie themselves in knots even at the thought! It’s lovely to be able to play for my own enjoyment, which is nice, as it allows me to extend my creativity.
I went on to higher education at Cornwall Technical College, where I gained O Levels in English Language, Human Biology and Drama. Unfortunately, Drama took up so much time that my other subjects suffered. I think the tutor was obsessed; nothing else or nobody else mattered.
It has taught me some very important integration and people skills, which often helps me think outside the box. That way, I’m unique. Not trying to be someone else, nor, frankly, interested in copying that which others do. Although I do accept we’re all touched by others, which then makes us a tiny part of them, to be inspired by them. They very likely become a part of ourselves, and go into the recipe of what makes us who we are.
Part-time support work in a care environment
When I did part-time care work as I built my massage practice in 1997, I supported individuals with learning disabilities and challenging behavior. This was mentally tiring, but incredibly rewarding in terms of what I was able to help them achieve. It was also great fun.
I met some very amusing characters. They had fun voices and often came out with hilarious comments; things like “Steve’s got scary legs/” or “Steve’s got a skinny bum!” and “Steve is a beautiful lady!” I used to crack up. “We’re ‘avin dead bird!” and, “l had burglars on toast this mornin.” “l – I’ve been to the doctors, yeah. He had to make sure I was still breathin’. They made sure I wasn’t leakin’.” I loved them to bits.
And they loved sing-a-longs. The group was initially a maximum of 10; a staff member played guitar, but unfortunately played every song in the key of G. This was very monotonous. Then, one day, Wendy, the manager, said to me, “Well, on your application form, it says you play the piano. You could do sing-a-long on Thursdays!”
And in at the deep end I was cast! I learned 32 songs in a week or two. I contrasted each song by playing them in different keys. The group grew quickly from 10 to 180 within a month. They put tables away after lunch, and dragged the piano into the room ready for 1:30pm sharp. No sensory-room session for me!
This variety of experience has given me some wicked people skills. I often had to diffuse potentially dangerous and violent incidents and behavior, using humour and quick thinking as much as possible.
I’m probably one of those rare people who can stand on one foot, hold a conversation with someone, stop two other people trying to get into a fight and serve lunch without dropping a single bit! Unless, when causing some mirth, I managed to catch myself on a fire extinguisher and end up falling flat on my face.
Keeping Myself Fit
I train at the gym four times a week, as much as time allows. I want to be my best so I can give you my best. I have to ensure I have enough energy left to do the best massage for you.
I’ve been on several massage courses throughout my career. I learned No-Hands massage, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, hot stone massage, facial massage and aromatherapy. My tutor also incorporated some reflexology into our training.
All these different styles lend themselves to making your massage even better and I often blend some or all of them together to give you the best massage experience.
I have a very gentle, nurturing disposition, which lends itself particularly well to giving you the right support and empathy. I have a zany, slapstick, sometimes sick sense of humour, which you either love or hate. I guess that makes me a bit like human Marmite.