First Time Having a Gay Massage?
If this is your first time having a gay massage, you may find this dedicated page helpful. I aim to give you as much information as I can.
First time having a gay massage? I hope the information I give you in this page will help you feel supported, befriended, and have a picture of what I’m like as a person. At some point, when you feel ready, you’ll be more confident about me giving you a beautiful, gay sensual massage.
If this is the first time you’ve had a gay massage, you’re probably wondering:
- How it goes?
- What it involves?
- What’s it going to be like?
Those are natural questions, and I’ll help all I can. You’ll all have a myriad of questions flying about in your head. It’s perfectly fine, if you feel you want to ask me a question.
You can do that using WhatsApp, email, text or call. Whatever method you’d be more comfortable using.
What I won’t be able to do, though, is answer any personal questions, nor details about what I might do with other clients. As you’ll appreciate, that’s strictly confidential information.
Anything else, I’m more than happy to help you with, if it’s within the scope of my profession, and I can answer it accurately. If it’s something I can’t answer, I’ll point you to any better sources of information where possible.
Some of the information on this page is similar, or related to, information in What happens in a Massage page, which you can visit here if you want to. It will also be a great idea to see whether we are a good fit for each other. If you head over to the questions and answers page, then click on the question that reads “Are we a good fit?” it will reveal the information without you having to read through everything on the page.
Here’s a brief run down on what happens:
When you buzz, I’ll come and let you in.
I ask you some questions
I’ll ask questions, such as, how you’re feeling, what was your journey like, was I easy to find, have you had much massage before. These help to give me picture of your general state, and help you connect with me more easily.
I’ll ask you about what kind of touch you prefer
You may want me to use very light, gentle pressure. You might want me to use more firmness. You may even enjoy a mixture of light and strong. Remember, there isn’t any right, or wrong, preference. What matters most, is that it’s how you want it to be in the moment. You are quite welcome, during the massage, to ask me to change my touch pressure if you want me to.
You are welcome to have some refreshments
You can have refreshments when you arrive if you like. There’s tea (builder’s), English breakfast tea, herbal tea, coffee if you want, or water, it’s entirely up to you.
You’re very welcome to freshen up
You can freshen up after you’ve arrived if you’d like to . You can have a shower if you want to, use the loo, attend to stuff you want to do before we make a start. It’ll help you to feel more relaxed, and settled in. It’s also a great way to spiritually cleanse, and will help you let go of some of the stress of work and travel. It’s surprisingly effective for doing that.
When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to lay down on the futon.
At this stage, I’ll help you make yourself as comfortable as possible before I begin the massage. I’ll then begin to anoint your body with warm coconut and rice-bran oil. I like to apply oil over your body to start with, so your massage flows better. That way, I don’t need to stop and apply more, unless it’s absolutely necessary. If I do, then I love to do it subtly. That means you’re spending more time enjoying your session, rather than being aware of undue interruptions.
Turning you over
Depending on which session you choose, after about an hour, I’ll gently ask you if you feel ready to turn over. This is a process that takes time. I don’t expect you to rush. Take exactly as long as you need.
When you’re feeling really floaty, which men frequently do with this sort of massage, it can take a while to find the energy to move. I’ll help you all the way, with big, strong and gentle arms to help turn you over. I’m there for you, waiting to help if you’d like me to.
After gentle encouragement to come back to your breath, and settling you down again, I’ll continue the massage on the front of your body. You don’t have to be still, you can move your body to the music if you want to, or, you can just entirely relax into the support of the futon. There’s no right or wrong way to be.
Depending on your preference, I’m happy to give you slow, delicious release whenever you want me to. Equally, you don’t have to release at all. You can hold it for your partner or spouse, if you prefer.
Anything more you’d like to know?
I think I’ve touched on everything that you would need to know about massage if it’s your first time. I hope this has proved useful for you.
For anything you feel I haven’t covered, please contact me, and ask a question. Remember, there’s no absolute necessity to book a massage with me, until you feel ready. That can take time.
So if you really want to experience this beautiful sensual gay massage, pause for a moment; have a think about what might be stopping you doing something you’ve always wanted to do.
Is it because you’re worried about what other people may think? If so, they don’t know what you want nearly as well as you do. More important, it’s about you, not them.
“Your dreams won’t come true if you fear what others might think.”
On a scale of 1 to 10, ( 1 being highly unlikely, and 10, extremely likely), where are you? Where would you like to be? How soon would you love to be there? Only you can decide.
I look forward to hearing from you soon.
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Steve, thank you for the most lustrous massage experience on 20th Dec. I look forward to our next session. John xx
The most lustrous massage experience
Many thanks for the last visit ( Pity you can not be packaged for a home visit! ) Have a good 2018. Alan
Many thanks for the last visit
Hi Steve, Just wanted to say thank you for a wonderful experience. It was amazing and it was so nice sharing a real intimate connection with you. It was something really pushing me out of comfort zone but I enjoyed it immensely nonetheless and I felt safe with you. You actually made me feel incredibly attractive too- I kinda couldn't believe it as I don't often look at myself in that way, something I'm working on. Thanks, Lewis
Just wanted to say thank you for a wonderful experience
What a amazing experience! Steve, you are fantastic. Deep tissue sensual massage was something I never forget. I enjoyed every minute, it was great! Tnx, Frank
I enjoyed every minute, it was great!
“Just had a really fabulous time with Steve. Took care of muscle aches ( I overdid it at the gym), and had the most amazing fullbody pleasure. I've never shaken like that before!“
Really good nurturing massage and good service
“Steve took the time to find out what my needs were. He clearly understands and works well with people. His massage was firm when needed, and gentle and effective also. Quite close to the station, very easy to find; he's a gem among the masseurs of London. In fact I think he's an angel.“
Master Masseur “I've enjoyed several superb massages from Steve. He's a caring, creative, masseur who really puts his best into all the aspects his passion which happens to be his work. A sensory delight for each sense is in store for you as is a sublime experience - the perfect antidote to our modern lives.“
I feel like I've been reborn. A x
I feel like I’ve been reborn!
You are the sweetest gentle fucking giant, you! With every full body orgasm I had, the more relaxed and free I felt. The final climax didn't just make me squirt like fuck, it made me feel like radiating sunlight. Can't believe how stupidly worried I was. You are the sweetest gentle fucking giant, you!
Can’t believe how stupidly worried I was
Amazing! Can I just say that was amazing. Fucking hell. I need all the control in the world not to want to experience that again tomorrow. And the next day. And the next day. Fuck!
I need all the control in the world not to want to experience that again
Writhing in ecstasy How could I forget that massage? You had me writhing on the massage t in aable state of utter ecstasy, while I was given free range to admire and stroke that fantastic, hairy body of yours! Something I’m not likely to ever forget…which is why I would like a repeat visit - D
Writhing on the massage table in a state of utter ecstasy!
I wanna bottle you up n take you home!
Awesome, Stevio! I wanna bottle you up and take ya home! See ya next time, boy! 😉 Warm relaxed feeling round my arse I’m Sitting on my patio with a warm smile, and a warm, relaxed feeling round my arse! Thank you! XX A.