First Time Having Gay Massage?

First Time Having a Gay Massage?

If this is your first time having a gay massage, you may find this dedicated page helpful. I aim to give you as much information as I can. 

First time having a gay massage? I hope the information I give you in this page will help you feel supported, befriended, and have a picture of what I’m like as a person. At some point, when you feel ready, you’ll be more confident about me giving you a beautiful, gay sensual massage.

If this is the first time you’ve had a gay massage, you’re probably wondering:

• How it goes?
• What it involves?
• What’s it going to be like?

Those are natural questions, and I’ll help all I can. You’ll all have a myriad of questions flying about in your head. It’s perfectly fine, if you feel you want to ask me a question. 

You can do that using WhatsApp, email, text or call. Whatever method you’d be more comfortable using.

What I won’t be able to do, though, is answer any personal questions, nor details about what I might do with other clients. As you’ll appreciate, that’s strictly confidential information.

Anything else, I’m more than happy to help you with, if it’s within the scope of my profession, and I can answer it accurately. If it’s something I can’t answer, I’ll point you to any better sources of information where possible.

Some of the information on this page is similar, or related to, information in What happens in a Massage page, which you can visit here if you want to. It will also be a great idea to see whether we are a good fit for each other. If you head over to the questions and answers page, then click on the question that reads “Are we a good fit?” it will reveal the information without you having to read through everything on the page.

Here’s a brief run down on what happens:

When you buzz, I’ll come and let you in. 

I ask you some questions

I’ll ask questions, such as, how you’re feeling, what was your journey like, was I easy to find, have you had much massage before. These help to give me picture of your general state, and help you connect with me more easily.

I’ll ask you about what kind of touch you prefer 

You may want me to use very light, gentle pressure. You might want me to use more firmness. You may even enjoy a mixture of light and strong. Remember, there isn’t any right, or wrong, preference. What matters most, is that it’s how you want it to be in the moment. You are quite welcome, during the massage, to ask me to change my touch pressure if you want me to.

You are welcome to have some refreshments

You can have refreshments when you arrive if you like. There’s tea (builder’s), English breakfast tea, herbal tea, coffee if you want, or water, it’s entirely up to you.

You’re very welcome to freshen up

You can freshen up after you’ve arrived if you’d like to . You can have a shower if you want to, use the loo, attend to stuff you want to do before we make a start. It’ll help you to feel more relaxed, and settled in. It’s also a great way to spiritually cleanse, and will help you let go of some of the stress of work and travel. It’s surprisingly effective for doing that.

When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to lay down on the futon.

At this stage, I’ll help you make yourself as comfortable as possible before I begin the massage. I’ll then begin to anoint your body with warm coconut and rice-bran oil. I like to apply oil over your body to start with, so your massage flows better. That way, I don’t need to stop and apply more, unless it’s absolutely necessary. If I do, then I love to do it subtly. That means you’re spending more time enjoying your session, rather than being aware of undue interruptions. 

Turning you over

Depending on which session you choose, after about an hour, I’ll gently ask you if you feel ready to turn over. This is a process that takes time. I don’t expect you to rush. Take exactly as long as you need.

When you’re feeling really floaty, which men frequently do with this sort of massage, it can take a while to find the energy to move. I’ll help you all the way, with big, strong and gentle arms to help turn you over. I’m there for you, waiting to help if you’d like me to.

After gentle encouragement to come back to your breath, and settling you down again, I’ll continue the massage on the front of your body. You don’t have to be still, you can move your body to the music if you want to, or, you can just entirely relax into the support of the futon. There’s no right or wrong way to be.

Release

Depending on your preference, I’m happy to give you slow, delicious release whenever you want me to. Equally, you don’t have to release at all. You can hold it for your partner or spouse, if you prefer. 

Anything more you’d like to know?

I think I’ve touched on everything that you would need to know about massage if it’s your first time. I hope this has proved useful for you. 

For anything you feel I haven’t covered, please contact me, and ask a question. Remember, there’s no absolute necessity to book a massage with me, until you feel ready. That can take time.

Any worries?

So if you really want to experience this beautiful sensual gay massage, pause for a moment; have a think about what might be stopping you doing something you’ve always wanted to do. 

Is it because you’re worried about what other people may think? If so, they don’t know what you want nearly as well as you do. More important, it’s about you, not them. 

“Your dreams won’t come true if you fear what others might think.”

On a scale of 1 to 10, ( 1 being highly unlikely, and 10, extremely likely), where are you? Where would you like to be? How soon would you love to be there? Only you can decide.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.