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If this is your first time having a gay massage, you may find this dedicated page helpful. I aim to give you as much information as I can.
First time having a gay massage? I hope the information I give you in this page will help you feel supported, befriended, and have a picture of what I’m like as a person. At some point, when you feel ready, you’ll be more confident about me giving you a beautiful, gay sensual massage.
If it’s your first time having gay massage
If this is the first time you’ve had a gay massage, you’re probably wondering:
- How it goes?
- What it involves?
- What’s it going to be like?
Those are natural questions. I’ll help all I can. Because you all have different questions flying about in your head, you need reassurance in some things. I can’t necessarily anticipate your questions (except from those obsessed by sex. I’ve been asked them all, and won’t waste my time even responding!), therefore I can’t provide you with answers here. Those are questions you’ll have to shoot at me.
You can do that using WhatsApp, email, text or call. Whatever method you’d be more comfortable using.
What I won’t be doing, though, is answering any personal questions. There is enough information on the website about me. My personal details are not up for discussion, nor to entertain those with morbidly curious inclinations. Similarly, details about what I do with other clients is, as with any other professional service, strictly confidential.
Anything else, I’m more than happy to help you with, if it’s within the scope of my profession, and I can answer it accurately. If it’s something I can’t answer, I’ll point you to any better sources of information where possible.
Some of the information on this page is similar, or related to, information in What happens in a Massage page, which you can visit here if you want to. It will also be a great idea to see whether we are a good fit for each other. If you head over to the questions and answers page, then click on the question that reads “Are we a good fit?” it will reveal the information without you having to read through everything on the page.
Here’s a brief run down on what happens:
First, you may wish to call me for further information. You might then get in touch later, to make your appointment. You’ll need to transfer the relevant service fee to my bank. I’ll give you the details via text.
Once the payment has been received, I’ll put your appointment in the calendar. If you don’t want to pay in advance, then, I regret, I will be unable to assist you.
This has been implemented due to people who have an affinity for booking appointments, then not showing up for them. I don’t have time for people who are not serious about what I do.
I ask you some questions
I’ll ask questions, such as, how you’re feeling, what you want from your massage, and if you have had much massage before. These help to give me picture of your general state, and help you connect with me more easily. I also make a valuable point of asking you if there is any part of you which you would not want me to touch. That can make or ruin an otherwise fabulous massage.
I’ll ask you about what kind of touch you prefer
If you would like me to use very light, gentle pressure, then I can adjust it to your needs. It’s possible that you may prefer me to use more firmness. You could, conceivably, enjoy a mixture of light and strong.
Remember, there isn’t any right, or wrong, preference. What matters most, is that it’s how you want it to be in the moment. You are quite welcome, during the massage, to ask me to change my touch pressure if you want me to.
When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to lay down on the futon.
At this stage, I’ll help you make yourself as comfortable as possible before I begin the massage. I’ll then begin to anoint your body with warm coconut oil. I like to apply oil over your body to start with, so your massage flows better. That way, I don’t need to stop and apply more, unless it’s absolutely necessary. If I do, then I love to do it subtly. That means you’re spending more time enjoying your session, rather than being aware of undue interruptions.
Turning you over
Depending on which session you choose, after about an hour, I’ll gently ask you if you feel ready to turn over. This is a process that takes time. I don’t expect you to rush. Take exactly as long as you need.
When you’re feeling really floaty, which men frequently do with this sort of massage, it can take a while to find the energy to move. I’ll help you all the way, with big, strong and gentle arms, to help turn you over. I’m there for you, waiting to help if you’d like me to.
After gentle encouragement to come back to your breath, and settling you down again, I’ll continue the massage on the front of your body. You don’t have to be still, you can move your body to the music if you want to, or, you can just entirely relax into the support of the futon. There’s no right or wrong way to be.
Depending on your preference, I’m happy to give you slow, delicious release whenever you want me to. Equally, you don’t have to release at all. You can hold it for your partner or spouse, if you prefer.
Can I make you cum, too?
This is not something I do. As I’ve advanced in maturity, I don’t release readily. In this matter, I have a rule.
The rule is: I never cum for clients.
I already give a huge amount of my energy when doing a massage. There should be absolutely no expectation for me to perform. Just as there’s no expectation for you to perform.
If you had to do so ( whether you wanted to, or not), then, you’d probably be so anxious you’d never have the courage for this kind of massage in the first instance.
All I ask, is the same respect and reverence I hold you in. I don’t have a contractual obligation to cum. Nor do you. It’s entirely your choice. Just as it is my choice. So, if you believe I ‘should’, then conditions will apply.
Anything more you’d like to know?
I think I’ve touched on everything that you would need to know about massage if it’s your first time. I hope this has proved useful for you.
For anything you feel I haven’t covered, please contact me, and ask a question. You only have to book a massage with me when you fell ready. That can take time.
In order to experience this beautiful sensual gay massage, pause for a moment; have a think about your worries, and run them by me. Don’t let uncertainty stop you doing something you’ve always wanted to try.
If it’s because you’re worried about what other people might think, there’s an important person you’re forgetting. Yourself. It’s about having some YOU time. Nothing to do with them.
“Your dreams won’t come true if you fear what others might think.”
On a scale of 1 to 10, ( 1 being highly unlikely, and 10, extremely likely), where are you? Where would you like to be? How soon would you love to be there? Only you can decide.
I look forward to hearing from you soon, to take you somewhere special.
I wanna bottle you up n take you home!
Awesome, Stevio! I wanna bottle you up and take ya home! See ya next time, boy! 😉 Warm relaxed feeling round my arse I’m Sitting on my patio with a warm smile, and a warm, relaxed feeling round my arse! Thank you! XX A.
Really good nurturing massage and good service
“Steve took the time to find out what my needs were. He clearly understands and works well with people. His massage was firm when needed, and gentle and effective also. Quite close to the station, very easy to find; he's a gem among the masseurs of London. In fact I think he's an angel.“
Hi Steve, Just wanted to say thank you for a wonderful experience. It was amazing and it was so nice sharing a real intimate connection with you. It was something really pushing me out of comfort zone but I enjoyed it immensely nonetheless and I felt safe with you. You actually made me feel incredibly attractive too- I kinda couldn't believe it as I don't often look at myself in that way, something I'm working on. Thanks, Lewis
Just wanted to say thank you for a wonderful experience
Steve, thank you for the most lustrous massage experience on 20th Dec. I look forward to our next session. John xx
The most lustrous massage experience
Many thanks for the last visit ( Pity you can not be packaged for a home visit! ) Have a good 2018. Alan
Many thanks for the last visit
You are the sweetest gentle fucking giant, you! With every full body orgasm I had, the more relaxed and free I felt. The final climax didn't just make me squirt like fuck, it made me feel like radiating sunlight. Can't believe how stupidly worried I was. You are the sweetest gentle fucking giant, you!
Can’t believe how stupidly worried I was
“Just had a really fabulous time with Steve. Took care of muscle aches ( I overdid it at the gym), and had the most amazing fullbody pleasure. I've never shaken like that before!“
Master Masseur “I've enjoyed several superb massages from Steve. He's a caring, creative, masseur who really puts his best into all the aspects his passion which happens to be his work. A sensory delight for each sense is in store for you as is a sublime experience - the perfect antidote to our modern lives.“
Amazing! Can I just say that was amazing. Fucking hell. I need all the control in the world not to want to experience that again tomorrow. And the next day. And the next day. Fuck!
I need all the control in the world not to want to experience that again
I feel like I've been reborn. A x
I feel like I’ve been reborn!
What a amazing experience! Steve, you are fantastic. Deep tissue sensual massage was something I never forget. I enjoyed every minute, it was great! Tnx, Frank
I enjoyed every minute, it was great!
Writhing in ecstasy How could I forget that massage? You had me writhing on the massage t in aable state of utter ecstasy, while I was given free range to admire and stroke that fantastic, hairy body of yours! Something I’m not likely to ever forget…which is why I would like a repeat visit - D
Writhing on the massage table in a state of utter ecstasy!