First Time Having Gay Massage?

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First time having a gay massage? You may find this dedicated page helpful. I aim to give you as much information as I can. 

First time having a gay massage? I hope the information I give you in this page will help you feel supported, befriended, and have a picture of what I’m like as a person. At some point, when you feel ready, you’ll be more confident about me giving you a beautiful, gay sensual massage.

If it’s your first time having gay massage

If this is the first time you’ve had a gay massage, you’re probably wondering:

• How it goes?
• What it involves?
• What’s it going to be like?

Those are natural questions. I’ll help all I can. Because you all have different questions flying about in your head, you need reassurance in some things. I can’t necessarily anticipate your questions (except from those obsessed by sex. I’ve been asked them all, and won’t waste my time even responding!), therefore I can’t provide you with answers here. Those are questions you’ll have to shoot at me.

You can do that using WhatsApp, email, text or call. Whatever method you’d be more comfortable using.

Personal questions

What I won’t be doing is answering personal questions. There is enough information on the website about me, and videos showing the massage generally. My personal details are not up for discussion, or to entertain those with morbidly curious inclinations. Similarly, details about what I do with other clients is, as with any other professional service, strictly confidential.

Anything else, I’m more than happy to help you with, if it’s within the scope of my profession, and I can answer it accurately. If it’s something I can’t answer, I’ll point you to any better sources of information where possible.

Some of the information on this page is similar, or related to, information in What happens in a Massage page, which you can visit here if you want to. It will also be a great idea to see whether we are a good fit for each other. If you head over to the questions and answers page, then click on the question that reads “Are we a good fit?” it will reveal the information without you having to read through everything on the page.

First time having gay massage? Here’s a brief run down on what happens:

First, you may wish to call me for further information. You might then get in touch later,  to make your appointment.

It can be hard to describe specifically what happens for each man with his massage. That’s because your reactions to it can be as unique as your fingerprint. I don’t have any accurate way of saying exactly how you might react, other than the observations I’ve made and noticed from the years of experience.

You’ll need to transfer the relevant service fee to my bank. I’ll give you the details via text.

Once the payment has been received, I’ll put your appointment in the calendar. If you don’t want to pay in advance, then, I regret, I will be unable to assist you.

This has been introduced due some men having an affinity for booking false appointments, then not showing up. I don’t have time for people who are not serious about what I do.

I ask you some questions

I’ll ask questions, such as, how you’re feeling, what you want from your massage, and if you have had much massage before. These help to give me picture of your general state, and help you connect with me more easily. I also make a valuable point of asking you if there is any part of you which you would not want me to touch. That can make or ruin an otherwise fabulous massage.

I’ll ask you about what kind of touch you prefer 

If you would like me to use very light, gentle pressure, then I can adjust it to your needs. It’s possible that you may prefer me to use more firmness. You could, conceivably, enjoy a mixture of light and strong.

Remember, there isn’t any right, or wrong, preference. What matters most, is that it’s how you want it to be in the moment. You are quite welcome, during the massage, to ask me to change my touch pressure if you want me to.

When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to lay down on the futon.

At this stage, I’ll help you make yourself as comfortable as possible before I begin the massage. I’ll then begin to anoint your body with warm coconut oil. I like to apply oil over your body to start with, so your massage flows better. That way, I don’t need to stop and apply more, unless it’s absolutely necessary. If I do, then I love to do it subtly. That means you’re spending more time enjoying your session, rather than being aware of undue interruptions. 

Turning you over

Depending on which session you choose, after about an hour, I’ll gently ask you if you feel ready to turn over. This is a process that takes time. I don’t expect you to rush. Take exactly as long as you need.

When you’re feeling really floaty, which men frequently do with this sort of massage, it can take a while to find the energy to move. I’ll help you all the way, with big, strong and gentle arms, to help turn you over. I’m there for you, waiting to help if you’d like me to.

After gentle encouragement to come back to your breath, and settling you down again, I’ll continue the massage on the front of your body. You don’t have to be still, you can move your body to the music if you want to, or, you can just entirely relax into the support of the futon. There’s no right or wrong way to be.

Release

Depending on your preference, I’m happy to give you slow, delicious release whenever you want me to. Equally, you don’t have to release at all. You can hold it for your partner or spouse, if you prefer. 

Can the masseur cum, too?

This is not something I do. As I’ve advanced in maturity, I don’t release readily. In this matter, I have a rule.

The rule is: I never cum for clients.

I already give a huge amount of my energy doing a massage. There should be absolutely no expectation for me to perform. Just as there’s no expectation for you to perform.

If you had to do so ( whether you wanted to, or not), then, you’d probably be so anxious, you’d never have the courage for this kind of massage in the first instance.

All I ask, is the same respect and reverence I hold you in. I don’t have a contractual obligation to cum. Nor do you. It’s entirely your choice. Just as it is my choice. So, if you believe I ‘should’, then conditions will apply.

Anything more you’d like to know?

I think I’ve touched on everything that you would need to know about massage if it’s your first time. I hope this has proved useful for you. 

For anything you feel I haven’t covered, please contact me, and ask a question. You only have to book a massage with me when you fell ready. That can take time.

Any worries? What sorts of thoughts or doubts could be holding you back?

In order to experience this beautiful sensual gay massage, pause for a moment; have a think about your worries. Please run them by me. I may not be able to reassure you about anything.  Especially if you don’t know say what’s worrying you. It’s so common- many guys leave it so long. That’s because they’re either:

• Worried about how other people might perceive them.
• The unknown is often a cause of fear or anxiety.
• Fear of being found out.
• Believing other people know why you come to see me.
• Cultural or religious fears that have been instilled in you since childhood.
• Feel of being punished.
• Fear of enjoying yourself.
• Guilt and or shame.
• Lack of confidence.

Ironically, sensual massage can help you to overcome all of the above.

If it’s because you’re worried, about what other people might think, there’s a very important person you’re forgetting. Yourself. It’s about having some YOU time. Nothing to do with them. Nothing at all. Nobody knows about your massage appointment. There’s no gigantic billboard online, or outside the house, with anyone’s name, or photo on. It’s totally confidential. Totally discreet. Totally private. Fear ye not, guys.

“Your dreams won’t come true if you fear what others might think.”

On a scale of 1 to 10, ( 1 being highly unlikely, and 10, extremely likely), where are you? Where would you like to be? How soon would you love to be there? Only you can decide.

I look forward to hearing from you soon, to take you somewhere special.