What happens during massage session?

What happens during a massage session? If you’ve never experienced a sensual gay massage before, you may be a little nervous, or curious, as to what happens.

It’s important not to come with too many expectations, as this might stop you allowing yourself to let go. But to put your mind at ease, here’s a summary of what will take place.

It’s important you know that I do not visit your house or hotel- my service is incall only- thank you.

Getting clean

Firstly, you’ll need to take a shower when you arrive, if you’ve come straight from a long, hard day at the office, or a workout at the gym. The purity of a massage will ensure your spiritual cleanliness, so it’s important to make sure you’re physically clean, too!

What are your needs?

Next, we will discuss your requirements. Perhaps you are just looking for a Sensual Massage. In which case, I will be gentle. If you are looking for a more vigorous experience (perhaps a Deep Tissue Sensual Massage), now is the time to say. At this point, you can also inform me of any areas you wish to remain untouched and let me know what temperature and atmosphere you would like for the room.

If you wish, there are some optional rituals we can share together before the massage begins. To establish intimacy, we can have a hug before beginning. When it comes to undressing, we can remove our clothes together in a ritual if you like, either simultaneously or one-by-one. You can decide; I’m here for your comfort, so it’s up to you.

During the massage

After I have helped you down onto my futon, I will anoint you with a warm, rich, silky mixture of oil, used to aid the massage. It has no odour, and is a mixture of coconut and rice bran oil.

While I am massaging you, it’s important to let yourself go, and be mindful in the moment. I will frequently check that you are comfortable, and there’ll be a glass of water nearby in case you feel thirsty.

Mutual touch:

When there’s a strong physical attraction between us, mutual touch is lovely. However, if there isn’t, it can be uncomfortable. Before making an arrangement with me, please find this out first, by clicking here. Thanks. 😊  It’s also worth reading the Are we a good fit? page. Not nearly enough visitors read it, and it’s one of the most important pages on the website.

What reactions might I have to Massage?

Reactions can be varied, and very different. Some men might experience emotional upset and may cry, others my experience extreme joy. 

Depending on the kind of massage you have, your body may vibrate, you may experience some severe, or mild convulsions of your body, because the bliss is so intense that your body loses control.

There are many reactions that someone can experience during a massage, so it’s not easy to say what will, and will not happen for certain. 

Here are just a tiny range of possible reactions. They are all different forms of release. You, may, or may not, experience them, and remember, everyone will experience them in different ways, and to a greater, or lesser degree. 

Some reactions will be lovely; some, conceivably, may not be. 

The uncomfortable ones first, then:

• Feeling uncontrollably emotional 
• Crying 
• Coughing 
• Sneezing 
• Feeling as though you’re drunk 
• Feeling lost, lonely or helpless 
• Needing the toilet more often than usual.
• Feelings of anger or depression
• Physical loss of control- your body may react in a way that scares you.

Some middle ground ones:

• Vivid recollections of events of long ago 
• Regressive feelings.

And now for the lovely ones:

• Trembling, vibrations, convulsions.
• Full body orgasms- one, or many.
• Ejaculation.
• Feeling like a huge weight, or burden, has been removed.
• Greater flexibility 
• Feelings of freedom, rebirth or being invigorated.
• Feeling liberated.
• Feelings of extreme euphoria
• Laughter
• Being much more energised due to release of tension and emotional holding.

Which ever reactions you experience, it’s perfectly fine to feel them. I’ll be there for you, and will check to see if you’re ok. Remember, you can ask me to stop, and talk with me, or, I can just be supportive and quiet by your side, as you allow the emotions to do their thing. 

Please don’t worry unnecessarily about experiencing these feelings. All are quite natural, and are part of the release process you may have during or after your massage. 

Is there any sex?

Many men ask questions about sexual events – whilst I recognise I work with your sexual energy, the massage is not an opportunity to indulge in sex. 

I am very focused, and dedicated to giving you an exquisite experience. If your intention is predominantly one of expecting me to provide sex, then it probably won’t work. Your focus should be on your own self-awareness, rather than involving me. I am merely a catalyst, there to facilitate release, and help your body enjoy what you feel.

After the massage

Once we’re finished, I will help you up from my futon and run a shower so that you can leave feeling fresh. I can also arrange for a cab to come and collect you if you wish.

I offer a discreet premium gay massage service in West London, using plenty of qualifications and 20 years of experience. If you would like to find out more or book a session, please get in touch today.