What happens during a gay massage session?

What happens during a gay massage session?

What happens during a gay massage session? If you haven’t experienced a sensual gay massage before, you may be nervous, or curious, about what happens.

If you’ve ever wondered what happens during a gay massage session, then hopefully this page will help you with the information you’re looking for. If you can’t find anything you’re looking for, please get in touch and let me know.

It’s important not to have too many expectations, as this can stop you allowing yourself to let go. To put your mind at ease, here’s a summary, and some additional information, of what can take place. If you might have any worries around enjoying your massage, there’s a new testimonials page just added for you to read.Testimonials

If you’ve never had a gay massage before, there’s a new page, called First Time Having a Gay Massage, which you might find useful.

What’s involved?

First, you’ll need to pay the necessary fee by bank transfer. Regrettably, I cannot come to you unless payment is received in my bank account, in advance of your session. This stops me flying about on wild goose chases.

Because every massage is completely different, it’s hard to know exactly what happens during a gay massage session. It’s entirely dependent on many factors, such as how we click, how you respond to, or react to, my touch, how you perceive me as a person. It depends a lot on how my different qualities interact with yours.

It also depends on how you are in the moment. Whether you choose to be quiescent, or noisy (in terms of your vocalisations, or self-expression).

In all cases, my observations always lead how I go forward with a session. After all, you’re at the centre of what I do. So it’s a point of best practice for me.

A safe space to be ‘yourself’

Your home, or hotel, is often the right place to find yourself, and discover who, and where you are. It’s a special place to be. To hold, and hug. Cuddle, and be cuddled. Even if that’s all you want. 

No need for performance. No anxiety. Just being where you can just “be held.” To cherish. And be cherished. Safe. Quiet. Or noisy. Self-expression, and self-awareness in the moment. The moment where it feels as though time stops. It stops for you. Your own “stopportunity.”

It’s a place of trust. A place for respect. To honour who you are. A place for discovering your truth. Your “why.”

It’s experiential

Some men are extremely shy, and may, or may not, feel guilty about wanting to experience what I have to offer. 

Some may be really aroused by the thought of having beautiful touch, from a very highly experienced, patient and mature gay masseur. 

We often go into relationships, to fulfil social, or cultural, obligations. Unfortunately, I see so many, who end up being incredibly unhappy. They find themselves trapped, and unable to escape, and be who they really want to be. 

Discovering who you are

This is, in part, why men want me to visit and massage them. They want to see, or find out, who they are. They want to discover something more deep and undiscovered about themselves. 

The massage appears to go through different phases during a session. That is, it takes on different characteristics, at different times, during the session. 

Sometimes, it can begin quite intense, then ebb and flow between being very soft and gentle, then veer towards being more intense again. That can happen any number of times. 

Sometimes the massage may start off very gently and softly, and as you relax, you begin to allow yourself to be more open to the experience, and find yourself enjoying it at quite an intense level. Then you might find you go through a soulful, peaceful phase, where you just want to ‘be’ again. There’s no right or wrong.

Ongoing updates to content

I’m updating each massage style as an ongoing project, to help you better understand what each one can be like. The details of each one can be found on the page for the style you’re looking for.

Tantric Massage: To find out what happens during a Gay Tantric Massage in West London, this link will take you to the Gay Tantric Massage Page.

If you like the idea of having Lingam Massage, take a look at the Lingam Massage page.

Getting clean

Firstly, you’ll need to be shower fresh. I will shower when I arrive. I don’t enjoy doing any massage without freshening up, first. The purity of a massage will ensure your spiritual cleanliness, so it’s important to make sure we’re both physically clean, too!

What are your needs?

Next, we’ll discuss your needs. Perhaps you are just looking for a Sensual Massage. In which case, I will be gentle. If you are looking for a more vigorous experience (perhaps a Deep Tissue Sensual Massage), now is the time to say. At this point, you can also inform me of any areas you wish to remain untouched. Your room temperature and atmosphere are important. You should set them how you want them before I arrive.

If you wish, there are some optional rituals we can share together before the massage begins. To establish intimacy, we can have a hug before beginning. When it comes to undressing, we can remove our clothes together in a ritual if you like, either simultaneously, or one-by-one. You decide; I’ll be there for your comfort, so it’s up to you.

During the massage

After I have helped you down onto your massage surface, futon, or my portable table, I will anoint you with a warm, rich, silky mixture of oil, used to aid the massage. It has no odour, and is coconut oil. If you have a bowl and some fairly hot water, I can use that to keep the oil warm, and enable me to apply oil freely throughout your massage.

While I am massaging you, it’s important to let yourself go, and be mindful in the moment. I will frequently check that you are comfortable. It’s a good idea to have a glass of water nearby, in case you feel thirsty.  Your home, or hotel room, is space that’s respectful, comfortable, and where I encourage you to grow, and enrich your soul.

Mutual touch

If there’s a strong physical attraction between us, mutual touch is lovely. However, if there isn’t, I may find it uncomfortable. Before making an arrangement with me, please find this out first.

Visit the Questions and answers page, and look for the heading: “Is mutual touch allowed?” Clicking on the title will expand the content, so you can read the details about it. It’s case specific. I’m not comfortable with mutual touch from just anyone.

What reactions might I have to Massage?

Reactions can be varied, and very different. Some men might experience emotional upset and may cry, others my experience extreme joy. 

Depending on the kind of massage you have, your body may vibrate, you may experience some severe, or mild convulsions of your body, because the bliss is so intense that your body loses control.

There are many reactions you can experience during a massage, so it’s not easy to say what will, and will not happen for certain. 

A range of different reactions

Here are just a tiny range of possible reactions. They are all different forms of release. You, may, or may not, experience them, and remember, everyone will experience them in different ways, and to a greater, or lesser degree. 

Some reactions will be lovely; some, conceivably, may not be. 

The uncomfortable ones first, then

• Feeling uncontrollably emotional 
• Crying 
• Coughing 
• Sneezing 
• Feeling as though you’re drunk 
• Feeling lost, lonely or helpless 
• Needing the toilet more often than usual.
• Feelings of anger or depression
• Physical loss of control- your body may react in a way that scares you.

Some middle-ground ones

• Vivid recollections of events of long ago 
• Regressive feelings.

The lovely ones

• Trembling, vibrations, convulsions.
• Shakes and shudders.
• Full body orgasms- one, or many.
• Ejaculation.
• Feeling like a huge weight, or burden, has been removed.
• Greater flexibility.
• Feelings of freedom, rebirth or being invigorated.
• Feeling liberated.
• Feelings of extreme euphoria.
• Laughter.
• Shouting and or hollering.
• Being much more energised due to release of tension and emotional holding.

It doesn’t matter to have reactions like these

Which ever reactions you experience, it’s perfectly fine to feel them. I’ll be there for you, and will check to see if you’re ok. Remember, you can ask me to stop, and talk with me, or, I can just be supportive and quiet by your side, as you allow the emotions to do their thing. 

Please don’t worry unnecessarily about experiencing these feelings. All are quite natural, and are part of the release process you may have during or after your massage. 

After the massage

Once we’re finished, I will help you up from the massage table, or your massage surface you’ve chosen. Take me to your shower so I can leave feeling fresh. I will arrange for a cab to come and collect me.

I offer a discreet, premium gay massage outcall service in West London, using plenty of qualifications and over 20 years experience. If you would like to find out more, or book a session, please get in touch.

If you know which style of massage you’d like, please get in touch. If you’re not sure what to go for, please ask for help. It’s part of what I do. I hope you’ve found ‘What happens in a gay massage session’ helpful.

Prices are for outcalls only, and include my cab to and from you in the Ealing area only. Other areas by arrangement only, POA. All Massage must be paid by bank transfer before I leave to attend you. Please click here for my bank details.

• Free gym ball worth £30 with your 2nd massage.*