What happens during a gay massage session?

What happens during a gay massage session?

If you haven’t experienced a sensual gay massage before, you may be nervous, or curious, about what happens.

It’s important not to come with too many expectations, as this can stop you allowing yourself to let go. To put your mind at ease, here’s a summary, and some additional information, of what can take place.

What’s involved?

It’s hard to know exactly what will happen during a massage session. It’s entirely dependent on factors such as how we click, how you respond or react to my touch, how you perceive me as a person. It depends a lot on how my different qualities interact with yours.

It also depends on how you are in the moment. Whether you choose to be quiescent, or noisy (in terms of your vocalisations, or self-expression).

In all cases, my observations always lead how I go forward with a session. After all, you’re at the centre of what I do. So it’s a point of best practice for me.

A safe space to be ‘yourself’

I offer you a place to find yourself, and discover who, and where you are. It’s a special place to be. To hold, and hug. Cuddle, and be cuddled. Even if that’s all you want. 

No need for performance. No anxiety. Just being where you can just “be held.” To cherish. And be cherished. Safe. Quiet. Or noisy. Self-expression, and self-awareness in the moment. The moment where it feels as though time stops. It stops for you. Your own “stopportunity.”

It’s a place of trust. A place for respect. To honour who you are. A place for discovering your truth. Your “why.”

It’s experiential

Some men are extremely shy, and may, or may not, feel guilty about wanting to experience what I have to offer. 

Some may be really aroused by the thought of having beautiful touch, from a very highly experienced, patient and mature gay masseur. 

We often go into relationships, to fulfil social, or cultural, obligations. Unfortunately, I see so many, who end up being incredibly unhappy. They find themselves trapped, and unable to escape, and be who they really want to be. 

Discovering who you are

This is, in part, why men come to me. They want to see, or find out, who they are. They want to discover something about themselves. 

Massage appears to go through different phases. That is, it takes on a different set of characteristics at different times during the session. 

Sometimes, it can begin quite intense, then ebb and flow between being very soft and gentle, then veer towards being more intense again. That can happen any number of times. 

Sometimes the massage may start off very gently and softly, and as you relax, you begin to allow yourself to be more open to the experience, and find yourself enjoying it at quite an intense level. Then you might find you go through a soulful, peaceful phase, where you just want to ‘be’ again. There’s no right or wrong.

Ongoing updates to content

I’m updating each massage style as an ongoing project, to help you better understand what each one can be like. The details of each one can be found on the page for the style you’re looking for.

Tantric Massage: To find out what happens during a Gay Tantric Massage in West London, this link will take you to the Gay Tantric Massage Page.

Environment

I invite you into an environment that is relaxing and lavish, as you can probably see from watching the videos on the site. It was inspired by my being invited to a friends engagement party, which took place in a Yurt, which is a Moroccan tent. It was absolutely beautiful, and captivated me completely. So much did it ‘grab’ my creative side, that I simply had to do my best to recreate it as best I could, so my studio looks less like a room, and more like a luxurious tent.

Getting clean

Firstly, you’ll need to shower when you arrive, if you’ve come straight from a long, hard day at the office, or a workout at the gym. The purity of a massage will ensure your spiritual cleanliness, so it’s important to make sure you’re physically clean, too!

What are your needs?

Next, we’ll discuss your needs. Perhaps you are just looking for a Sensual Massage. In which case, I will be gentle. If you are looking for a more vigorous experience (perhaps a Deep Tissue Sensual Massage), now is the time to say. At this point, you can also inform me of any areas you wish to remain untouched and let me know what temperature and atmosphere you would like for the room.

If you wish, there are some optional rituals we can share together before the massage begins. To establish intimacy, we can have a hug before beginning. When it comes to undressing, we can remove our clothes together in a ritual if you like, either simultaneously, or one-by-one. You decide; I’m here for your comfort, so it’s up to you.

During the massage

After I have helped you down onto my futon, I will anoint you with a warm, rich, silky mixture of oil, used to aid the massage. It has no odour, and is a mixture of coconut and rice bran oil.

While I am massaging you, it’s important to let yourself go, and be mindful in the moment. I will frequently check that you are comfortable, and there’ll be a glass of water nearby, in case you feel thirsty. I’ve done my best to create a special, safe space, where you can be with no expectations of you. A space that’s respectful, comfortable, and where I encourage you to grow, and enrich your soul.

Mutual touch:

When there’s a strong physical attraction between us, mutual touch is lovely. However, if there isn’t, it can be uncomfortable. Before making an arrangement with me, please find this out first, by clicking here. Thanks. 😊  It’s also worth reading the Are we a good fit? page. Not nearly enough visitors read it, and it’s one of the most important pages on the website.

What reactions might I have to Massage?

Reactions can be varied, and very different. Some men might experience emotional upset and may cry, others my experience extreme joy. 

Depending on the kind of massage you have, your body may vibrate, you may experience some severe, or mild convulsions of your body, because the bliss is so intense that your body loses control.

There are many reactions you can experience during a massage, so it’s not easy to say what will, and will not happen for certain. 

Here are just a tiny range of possible reactions. They are all different forms of release. You, may, or may not, experience them, and remember, everyone will experience them in different ways, and to a greater, or lesser degree. 

Some reactions will be lovely; some, conceivably, may not be. 

The uncomfortable ones first, then:

• Feeling uncontrollably emotional 
• Crying 
• Coughing 
• Sneezing 
• Feeling as though you’re drunk 
• Feeling lost, lonely or helpless 
• Needing the toilet more often than usual.
• Feelings of anger or depression
• Physical loss of control- your body may react in a way that scares you.

Some middle-ground ones:

• Vivid recollections of events of long ago 
• Regressive feelings.

The lovely ones:

• Trembling, vibrations, convulsions.
• Full body orgasms- one, or many.
• Ejaculation.
• Feeling like a huge weight, or burden, has been removed.
• Greater flexibility 
• Feelings of freedom, rebirth or being invigorated.
• Feeling liberated.
• Feelings of extreme euphoria
• Laughter
• Being much more energised due to release of tension and emotional holding.

Which ever reactions you experience, it’s perfectly fine to feel them. I’ll be there for you, and will check to see if you’re ok. Remember, you can ask me to stop, and talk with me, or, I can just be supportive and quiet by your side, as you allow the emotions to do their thing. 

Please don’t worry unnecessarily about experiencing these feelings. All are quite natural, and are part of the release process you may have during or after your massage. 

Is there any sex?

Many men ask questions about sex. Whilst I recognise I work with your sexual energy, the massage is not intended to be an opportunity to indulge in sex. Expectations create anxiety, because this causes an expectation that you, or me, has to perform. That completely undermines what I am trying to achieve. Massage is supposed to be purely about touch, and the safety associated with touch.

I’m always conscious of your boundaries. Like you, I have boundaries as well. If you feel you are entitled to ‘Take’ ( by that, I refer to taking liberties), please do me the kindness of asking my permission. Not doing so is theft, and can be very exhausting. I would never dream of taking liberties with you, without your permission. Things like that wouldn’t be enjoyable for you, and you’d never come back. If you need clarification, send me an email.

Each style of massage I offer is on it’s own particular page. I’m currently updating the content, to help give you more information about each style. Each has it’s own detail, and I aim to be as informative as I can.

After the massage

Once we’re finished, I will help you up from my futon and run a shower so that you can leave feeling fresh. I can also arrange for a cab to come and collect you if you wish.

I offer a discreet, premium gay massage service in West London, using plenty of qualifications and over 20 years experience. If you would like to find out more or book a session, please get in touch.

Book your first massage now, and get a £10 discount off your session.