First time having a gay massage?
I've written the information on this page to help you feel more supported and befriended. So you don't feel alone.
Hopefully, combined with the information about me on the Introducing Steve your masseur page, you'll have an idea about what I’m like as a person.
At some point, when you feel ready, you’ll be more confident about me giving you a beautiful, sensual gay massage.
Some of the information here is similar to the info on my what happens during a gay massage page.
Please take a look at it as well as my questions and answers page.
Further information
If it’s your first time having gay massage
You're probably wondering how it goes, what's involved, and what's it going to be like.
It depends who's perspective you're looking at those questions from. Is it men who've had massage with me?
Is it men who haven't had massage before. Both will give you interesting views.
To be perfectly honest, you'll need to ask me. I'll try to give you the best answer.
I know some of the fears you're havingbut not all. They appear fairly often.
The unknown can be a cause of fear or anxiety. This can put the lid on lots of things we'd love to do, but daren't.
Fear of enjoying yourself, especially amid social pressures that embody enjoyment as taboo.
What might happen if you love it? Again, I won't be saying anything to anyone.
Cultural and/ or religious fears that have been instilled in you since childhood. Will I be caught? I won't be telling anyone, so you won't be caught.
Thinking that everyone is looking at them, that they've been here and what may have happened. Nobody but you and me know anything.
Fear of being found out and or punished or ostracized. You massage with me is confidential. It's against my policy to say anything to anyone.
Lack of confidence. Not feeling you have the right to enjoy yourself once in a while. Thinking noboby would like you, maybe?
There are some men who will never have the courage to have a massage of this sort. Hopefully it's not you.
I may not be able to reassure you about anything, especially if you don’t say what’s worrying you.
Ironically, sensual massage can help you to overcome all of the above.
If it’s because you’re worried, about what other people might think, there’s a very important person you’re forgetting - yourself.
It’s about having some you time. Nothing to do with them. Nothing at all. Nobody knows about your massage appointment.
It’s totally confidential. Totally discreet. Totally private.
Specific Information
Personal questions
this site. My personal details are not up for discussion.
Similarly, details about what I do with other clients, as with any other professional service, is strictly confidential.
Anything else, I’m more than happy to help with, if it’s within the scope of my profession, and I can answer it accurately.
If it’s something I can’t answer, I’ll point you to better sources of information where possible.
A brief run down on what happens
It can be hard to describe specifically what happens for each man with his massage.That’s because your reactions to it can be as unique as your fingerprint.
I don’t have any accurate way of saying exactly how you might react, other than the observations I’ve made, and noticed, from my years of
experience.
Before you make your appointment, you may wish to contact me for further information.
I ask you some questions
I’ll ask questions, such as how you’re feeling, what you want from your massage, and if you have had massage before.I’ll ask you about what kind of touch you prefer
If you would like me to use very light, gentle pressure, then I can adjust it to your needs.It’s possible that you may prefer me to use more firmness. You could conceivably enjoy a mixture of light and strong.
Remember, there isn’t any right or wrong preference. What matters most, is that it’s how you want it to be in the moment.
You are quite welcome to ask me to change my touch pressure during the massage, if you want to.
When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to lay on the futon.
At this stage, I’ll help you make yourself as comfortable as possible before I begin the massage.
I anoint your body with warm coconut oil. I like to apply oil over your body to start with so your massage flows better.
That way, I don’t need to stop and apply more unless it’s absolutely necessary. If I do, then I love to do it subtly.
That means you’re spending more time enjoying your session rather than being aware of undue interruptions.
Turning you over
Depending on which session you choose, after about an hour, I’ll gently ask you if you feel ready to turn over.
This is a process that takes time. I don’t expect you to rush. Take exactly as long as you need.
When you’re feeling really floaty (which men frequently do ), it can take a while to find the energy to move.
I’ll help you all the way, with big, strong and gentle arms. I’m there for you, waiting to help if you’d like me to.
After gentle encouragement to come back to your breath, and settling you down again, I continue the massage on your front.
You don’t have to be still. You can move your body to the music if you want to. Or you can just entirely relax into the futon.
There’s no right or wrong way to be.
Release
Equally, you don’t have to release at all. You can hold it for your partner or spouse if you prefer.
Please be aware, I don't have a contract with you to cum. Trying to make me ejaculate will be a waste of time.
Touching your masseur intimately without his permisssion is an act of assault.
This will result in your massage being stopped, and you won't be refunded. Your conduct is entirely your presponsibility.
I hope I’ve touched on everything you'd need to know about massage if it’s your first time.
Location
Prices
Get £20 off when you pay the fee in full in advance. Bank transfer is preferred. Cash in an envelope posted though the letterbox well in advance works.
You could also use postal orders. Postal orders need to be received and funds cleared in advance of your appointed date.
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1.0 hour £120
1.5 hours £160
2.0 hours £200
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First, select the massage service you want from the list. Next, click a date on the calendar that appears.
Fill out the required information, then click to submit inquiry. You'll receive an email notification.
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