Articles you want me to write about. In this blog post, I’m taking the opportunity to ask you what you’d like me to write articles about.  I’ve been finding lots of different ways of being productive. Writing some great articles for you would also be a great use of time.

I’ve spent a while, building particularly meaningful relationships with guys, who asked me various questions. Some concern really interesting self-development issues.

Some are from beautiful men who’ve unfortunately suffered at the hands of others in abusive relationships.

What articles would you like me to write about?

While writing this new post, I felt it could help you all in meaningful, and human, ways. For instance, I can give some (edited) case studies. It’s surprising how often many different people experience the same problems, and how I can manage to help you overcome them.

Ideas for articles

Because I realise there are many, very shy men among you, you might have a question you find difficult to talk about, but which I’d be happy to write articles on. I realise you have many more questions than those I answer on the questions and answers page. They are just a few of the questions I get asked.

There are probably many other questions, or, other massage-related things you would find of interest. lots of guys have asked me if I have uncensored videos. I do, but they can’t be on the website. Please get in touch if you are interested in them.

Get in touch with ideas for articles

I encourage you to get in touch via email, or even Whatsapp,  I’m happy to spend some time answering things that you’d like me to write about. Especially things you would find very informative and helpful.

This will create many helpful resources, available for everyone to read. It can expand the knowledge base of the website to help you make informed decisions, and will help give different perspectives on my art.

Get in touch, and let me know what you’d like me to write about. I welcome your ideas.

Uncensored gay massage videos are great for those of you wanting to see what I do in all it’s glory. The videos convey the authentic, patient, nurturing and dedicated aspects of what I do. It is, from the great feedback I’m always having, the most erotic massage video you’ll ever find on the internet.

Helping overcome stress with videos

To help overcome stress, I’ve been editing and putting together some uncensored gay massage videos. I have several, none of which are too long. Some men appear to find a full 90 minute session boring to watch, because the happy ending never happens until almost the very end. I’m regularly adding new and updated videos to the collection, so check back regularly to see the latest ones. 🙂

I’ve now done several, the newest ones are at the top of this list:

• What happens in a gay sensual massage session, lasts 30:57 minutes.
• Uncensored Tantric Massage, lasts 7:00 minutes.
• Cock Massage, aka an A to Z or Lingam Massage (a short excerpt from the Lingam Massage DVD).
• Uncensored Deep Tissue Sensual Massage lasts 6:39 minutes.
• Cock Massage video, lasts 7:05 minutes.
• Uncensored Gay Massage Video, lasts 7:11 minutes.
• Uncensored Erotic Gay Massage with cum-shot at the end, lasts 20:05 minutes.

Due to the ever evolving  state of various hosting platforms, I’m presently experiencing problems with xylo space. My videos have been hosted there for some considerable time. unfortunately, having recently tried to login, and update the profile, I’ve found to my dismay that my account doesn’t appear to exist.

I’ve never received any notification that the hosting was changing, so its somewhat frustrating. All the video content there has been lost or deleted by them, without receiving any notification. I’ll update the moment I’m able to sort something else out. Until then, the videos are unavailable, unless you would like to buy a hard copy.

If this is the case, please send a large capacity USB flash drive to me through the post. Please ensure you enclose a stamped addressed envelope for it’s return. You then transfer the modest fee of £30.00 to my bank account. After that, I’ll load the videos onto your flash drive, and post it back to you.

If you’d like to do this, please get in touch, ask me, and I’ll give you the necessary bank details for payment, and the address for you to send your USB flash drive and stamped addressed envelope. I recommend a drive with at least 64GB capacity.

Because of the nature of them, they’re impossible to host on this website.  The vast bandwidth used, when viewing them, would result in my website hosting being disabled. That, in effect, would mean my website would be completely inaccessible.

When they were hosted on Xylospace, I had an enormous number of compliments about them. I’m frequently told that my sensual gay massage videos are the most beautiful, sensual, gentle videos you’ll ever find anywhere on the Internet.

I’ve had some lovely emails, telling me how much guys have enjoyed watching me do erotic massage.

I look forward to loading the videos on your sticks… pun intended.

Questions and answers is a new webpage I’ve just created, which will hopefully answer any questions you might have about the massage, and things generally related to it.

I’ve updated the link to the page in the navigation menu in the dashboard of my website. It now appears to show up properly in the navigation menu, which it didn’t before. If you wish to, you can use this link to access it questions and answers page.

It’s a work in progress- there will always be new questions cropping up, and each time one appears, I’ll put it on the questions and answers page and update it each time. I’ve no idea what the questions will be until someone thinks of one. It’s nice to be able to answer a completely unexpected question, and enjoy the challenge of doing so-  it’s very refreshing!

It’s there to help you with something you might not have time to ask me directly over the phone, and it’ll save you time sending me a text when the answer you seek is on the new page. If it isn’t, don’t forget to slap my wrists and tell me, so it can be added at a later stage.

Hope you find it useful. Don’t forget to send any other questions for suggestion and inclusion on it.

Ever wanted to know how to give the best Sensual Massage? Here, you’ve just found what you need to know and do to deliver it.

1) Make sure you have plenty of time before doing any kind of massage, particularly sensual, because time is one of the most important ingredients, apart from you and your massage partner.

2) Ensure you have the necessary space and make it really comfortable with cushions, pillows, curtains, throws, candles and any other luxury items that add to the atmosphere. Make sure the space is also at a really comfortable temperature.

3) Ensure there are no distractions or other things pressing which you need to get out of the way. Your massage won’t be effective or enjoyable for your partner if you keep stopping or starting because you’ve just remembered something else that needs doing. Get everything out of the way before you begin.

4) Decide on whether you want snacks and food to hand. This can make the massage extra special, especially if it’s a favourite food you both enjoy together. This can be really lovely if you like to swap massage, it’s just a way to make the occasion more abundant.

5) Choose music that pleases both of you. Unless you prefer to have quiet, putting music on adds to the overall sexiness of the occasion.

6) Make sure you breathe. Breathing is key to good massage – and it’s just as important for the person receiving the massage as the person giving it. The more oxygen present in both of you will heighten awareness and make your pleasure a hundredfold better.

7) Use warm luxury oil, such as coconut, rice bran, or other mix, making sure your partner has no allergies to the oils you use. Using warm oil is a beautiful experience for your partner. Depending on preference, you might choose to add essential oils to bring scent to your massage as well. Avoid using cold or room temperature oil at all costs, and, most importantly, ensure you haven’t used it for cooking. There’s nothing worse than making your partner feel like they’re being served up alongside fish and chips.

8) If your partner has any slightly sore or aching muscles, it’s really considerate to give those areas some dedicated massage before moving on to the sensual side of the massage. It shows that you care, that you’re patient and that you’re interested in pleasing them.

9) Move to making your touch far more slow, gentle and light. If your partner enjoys a heavier touch, then mingle it in with light touch, then go to slightly heavier touch. Try not to consciously think about anything other than the pleasure you get from giving your partner pleasure. Let your touch go wherever it feels natural and enjoyable. Close your eyes. Really feel your partner. Discover them as though they have words on them which you can feel, rather than needing eyes to see. Go incredibly slowly, then slow down even further. Imagine making your massage so slow that anyone watching could not see your movements. This can make your massage totally sublime.

10) Ensure you listen, observe and respond to the reactions your partner has to your touch and aim to give them the most amazingly memorable time they have ever known. Never rush at any point and, if you do feel more excited, remember not to give in to your pleasure, but make it even more delicious, gentle and teasing than ever. It’s an art that simply cannot be rushed.

Headaches can be quite debilitating. They are among the highest percentage of instances where people are unable to work and call in sick. This applies equally to migraines. The causes of many migraines and headaches are stress and tension related, and others where certain trigger foods run a close second. A surprising number can be caused by subconsciously biting your teeth together. First, take yourself to a quiet, comfortable sound-free space, if possible. Preferably, lay yourself down and try to let all your muscles go floppy. Lay a folded towel under your head. Lightly close your eyes. Allow your jaw to be just comfortably open. Take big, deep, focused breaths.

Then, begin to explore the muscles on your face with the fingers or thumbs. Can you feel any which are quite painful when you press on them? If so, you’ve probably found one of the trigger points for your headache. If you’re not taking any medication for heart conditions, or to thin the blood, then you can safely press and circle over the triggers. The reason I mentioned about medication is that even gentle pressure can cause bruising, especially if you’re taking warfarin.

Some of the trigger points can feel quite painful when you work on them. Remember to press and circle the offending muscles slowly and progressively. If you find one which appears to amplify your headache, take it gently. First, press, and circle. Is it painful? Does the pain recede over a period of 10 seconds? Are you aware of any other muscles which are related to, and contributing to your headache?

They must all completely release before your headache will go. There are many triggers. Some are in the forehead, others on the cheek (zygomatic) bones, in the muscles of that area. Others can be present in the rear of the jaw just below the earlobes. These can be major contributors to headaches so painful you can feel quite sick with pain. Gently attack them. Press, breathe, circle, press further in, breathe, circle. Can you find any others that feel as tender?

They also exist in the orbital cavities (the periphery of the eye sockets), and often at the top of the bridge of the nose adjacent to the eye sockets. Please be mindful around the eyes, because pressure applied in this area can press contact lenses uncomfortably against the eyes. I would recommend them removed before working round the eyes.

Others triggers can be found on the back of the head, at the base of the skull, known as the occipital. The muscle that traverses from the occipital bone, over the head to the forehead and down to the eyes is the Occipitofrontalis muscle. There can be regional tension anywhere along this muscle, and good, deep, invigorating massage with thumbs and fingers can lift an enormous amount of tension and help you feel much better.

Necks and shoulders are also prone to tension, because their muscles are linked to the head and used to move it, as well as being used for a huge amount of other movements. The human head weighs an average of 14 pounds, so think of the work your muscles have to do in a day.

As a great takeaway, here’s a really good shortcut you can use. This is often the best way to start finding the triggers, because it makes you aware of which ones they are: open the mouth as hugely wide as possible. Screw the eyes shut as tight as you can. Stick out the tongue as far as possible. Do this for 10-20 seconds, then relax. Remember how important it is to breathe throughout anything like this. Ingress of oxygen really helps relieve tension, so take really huge big lungfuls. And be careful not to do this on a tube train or bus-someone might be irreversibly scared!